where to find decorating inspiration from real homes?

I know about HGTV and magazine sites which have inspiration banks, and some places charge you for it. Do you have any good place for real home pictures and inspiration? Not like catalogue stuff which are built studio sets. I want the real deal! Note: Free and online, not in printed mags. Thanks! I would [...]

Where is the motivation in performance art such as ballet and piano?

Don’t such artists in ballet and piano get their motivation from their eagerness to please others, aka the audience? I’ve realized that all my life, I’ve been an exhibitionist, showing off to others. Right now, I’m doing things that I wouldn’t do if I didn’t have an audience to build intrinsic motivation, motivation that comes [...]