How do I develop the motivation to start dating?

I’m almost 21 years old and I’ve never had a girlfriend. The most dominant explanation is that I’m too shy to even ask a girl out. And as a result, I’ve simply lost the motivation to consider dating, but still retaining the interest in girls.

I don’t think motivation is the problem..you’re just nervous about it. Try starting out as friends with someone.

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6 Responses to “How do I develop the motivation to start dating?”

  1. Aaron, on September 16th, 2009 at 4:50 am Said:

    don’t be shy. go out and talk to girls. cuz if you don’t you always wonder what if.
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  2. Miss CA, on September 16th, 2009 at 5:27 am Said:

    I don’t think motivation is the problem..you’re just nervous about it. Try starting out as friends with someone.
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  3. Stella, on September 16th, 2009 at 5:58 am Said:

    Dont worry so much about it your 21 not 71. The best way to motivate is to do things that make you feel more confident. Asking someone out isn’t easy but understand that this sort of thing can happen to anyone.

    The worst thing the girl can say is no, and after that atleast you wont be wondering what would have happened
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  4. Sean S, on September 16th, 2009 at 6:19 am Said:

    Walk up to the girl that you have the best connection with(the one that you make laugh all the time) if she is single say"Excuse me miss, but would you like to partake in a wonderful time at the ________.". Put a place that you think she will like and that you feel ok with in the blank say it with confidence and gusto, She WILL be flattered and she may even say yes. You’re in your prime it never to late so go get em’ tiger.
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    I’m a younger gent but women turn to puddy with a little flattery – practice with a receptionist cause its hard (for some) to say stuff like that to strangers when you do it the first time better to make an a** out of yourself to a stranger than to someone you like – practice with the front desk women they’ll get a kick out of it and you will gain much confidence.

  5. L H, on September 16th, 2009 at 6:39 am Said:

    Hmm…well you sound like a very intelligent well spoken individual, so PLEASE don’t let fear stand in the way. The world is much in need of great guys who know how to articulate their thoughts, and women with LOVE you for that.

    Start with online dating, get a feel for what’s out there and who’s interested. Then chat on the phone with a few girls at least once, and then take the plunge and MEET them.

    Success is moving from failure to failure without any loss of enthusiasm. So take that sharp sense of self and go get ‘em!

    Cheers,
    Lana.
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    http://www.designedfordating.com

  6. gadis melayu91, on September 16th, 2009 at 7:04 am Said:

    don’t be like that. you have many ways to ask a girl for a date. you can send sms o just call. o you can ask help from your friend to company you. as you almost 21,be the man not be the boy. start now o you will not start forever.
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